• Dark_Blade@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Problem is, you can end up with someone who isn’t a piece of shit but turns into one, or was always a piece of shit but they hid it well.

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      A lady I know had to divorce her husband after he had a stroke and turned into a raging, abusive narcissist. I can only imagine how confusing and painful it was for her.

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        1 year ago

        That sounds absolutely horrifying, seeing someone you love turn into someone else, that too due to no fault of their own.

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        So this guy probably had no means of income after his stroke, so what would have been the purpose of permanent alimony in her case? Garnish his disability check?