• FrowingFostek@lemmy.world
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    23 days ago

    Sure, I guess more social friction will solve the issue.

    I’d say getting drunk could also be a cultural thing.

    Beating your wife? I could not see as a cultural thing.

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      23 days ago

      Beating your wife? I could not see as a cultural thing.

      That’s kind of exactly my point, though. I see claiming being loud and inconsiderate to others as people practicing their culture to be just as disingenuous an argument as saying wife-beating is a part of Irish culture that just has to be accepted. It’s just brought out to defend bad behavior, often with the implication that if you continue to criticize said behavior, you’re automatically in the wrong, having revealed yourself as bigoted against whatever group you’re criticizing.

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      23 days ago

      And yeah every September a portion of my country takes up a chunk of a lot of cities for a weekend to get drunk because Germany. Every March they do it because Ireland. Every June because gay. That adds to cultural vibrancy and in its absence communities can become unpleasantly sterile.

      People should play their rap, but remember some of their neighbors are sleeping. Community festivals, and night gatherings are beautiful and wonderful expressions of culture. And also I swear to the gods some of us work really early in the morning.

      I miss the vibrancy of places that had such things like my college dorms. But I don’t miss trying to sleep through it when people got too loud.

      • taladar@sh.itjust.works
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        23 days ago

        I think it would be fine if it was that one night a year that your local city has their local festival but it is different if every other event has a local copy all year around.