• RinseDrizzle@midwest.social
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    16 days ago

    Should be asleep ramble but…

    Honestly, had a lot of time to think back in chemo. Wasn’t even old enough to drink yet. Caught early, pretty high rates for success… But still… Lots of time to think. Sat next to sweet old ladies with much harder fights…

    I appreciate the cosmic absurdity of it all. This whole experience of brief life in a tiny blip of this stupid cosmic scale of infinity in all directions, billions of years either side… Meaning comes from what we make it. It’s the best of times, it’s the worst of times. Try to enjoy the ride while it lasts.

    Find hobbies. Learn a new skill. Get lost in a book, or museum, or at a disco. Get that extra slice. Take that road trip. Learn how to play that instrument. No, it’s probably not too late to start skiing, or climbing, or studying French. Grind if you have to. Cool shit often requires luck, but those who put in the hours get lucky more.

    I feed my brain new music every day, and try to add laughter to every room I’m in. Make art, be weird, find the helpers.

    Much love

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    Prozac and therapy.

    Which honestly, is working. If only I arrived at this method sanely, rather than nearly ending it all and winding up in a hospital.

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    Read more history, even just the last 1-200 years. Really dig in to the shit they don’t get into in school. What you’ll find is that times have always been “troubling” and if anything I think there’s a selfishness some people have when they always focus on somehow NOW is the worst time ever and NOW is when things are terrible and everything good will somehow end.

    Honestly, whatever you think is “troubling” nowadays probably isn’t even new or the first time. But so many people don’t understand just how fucked up all of history has been and yet people and countries and cultures survived.

    If anything, life today in general for most is far better than in all of human history. Due to advancements in technology and medicine, most people don’t have to worry about basic survival things the same way they might have even just 100 years ago.

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    Honestly, sticking my head in the sand in a way. I deleted all social media from my phone (minus Lemmy) and un-joined any news communities on here. I’m trying to keep my world smaller so I can stay sane and keep those dearest to me taken care of as best as I can.

    Honestly, it’s worked a treat. I feel a little guilty for not rallying for the cause or keeping up with the world, but it’s just too much.

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      Your eyes are a commodity. Choose wear they go. Anger and fear is what they need to keep your eyes on their media.

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      I renewed my tram card today, it expired a few months ago so I was paying full price instead of the low income price since then. I’m happy to have crossed that out of my to-do list

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        This could be its own post. I posted there about going to get a haircut and asking if sport clips is more or less the Hooters of haircut places. (I’ve never been to sport clips)

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          I checked the planning of my hairdresser but unfortunately my usual isn’t available this week. it’s not the same if it’s not the regular, mostly because of the chat.

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    The fact that I see and hear my family’s ethos in everything The Right does. That makes me angry beyond comprehension and motivates me to keep going out of sheer spite.

    The assholes who raised me didn’t manage to break me, not enough to take me out of the game. The assholes who rule us now have their work cut out for them, because I came out stronger.

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    Avoiding the news mostly and resisting the urge to participate in most online comments. Not getting upset about things I have no control over.

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    China installed 181 GW of solar power capacity from January to October 2024. It’s installing about 200 GW of solar every year. In about 20 years we will have so much renewable energy and renewable storage mechanisms that oil will no longer be a reason for wars. In 100 years from now generative AI might exist and humans will be on Mars. Everything I do that’s constructive for the world, that isn’t exploitative, keeps these positive developments progressing however slowly so that future generations of humanity will not know our suffering.

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      In 100 years from now generative AI might exist…

      I believe you mean Artificial General Intelligence (AGI) We currently use generative AI.

      …keeps these positive developments progressing slowly so that future generations of humanity will not know our suffering.

      Hear hear!

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    The responses are rough, man 😅 Some of y’all are hanging on just out of spite - which is totally valid tho. Hope you all will be able to find beauty in the world again and enjoy life!

    For me it’s my family. Had a real fucking shitty day yesterday. Everything went wrong and then some. Then just got a glimpse of a picture of my son playing with his grandparents, laughing, happy. That was it, my day got 1200% better that instant.

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      Same, although my offspring has already left the nest, but addition to the Mrs I got my house full of plants and animals.

      Maybe I’m not that sane 🤔

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        Ahh, yes. I can also add plants and pets to the list!

        Go over bury your face in the plushy fur of your dog/cat? Day suddenly looks way less gloomy.

        And fuck, it is a good feeling to see a new leaf or bloom sprouting from your favourite plant-Bro 👌

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          My cats don’t like when I “blow bubbles” in their stomach (Devon Rex, so almost hairless stomach), but I still do it 😁. Dog is sharped so that it’s dick reaches it’s chest plate, so that’s a no go.

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    An egg?

    I try to channel all these lessons I picked up in therapy like “everyone is trying their best” and “we’re all just billiard balls”

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    Moved my youtube habits away from doom and gloom news channels and instead to history documentaries and old episodes of Best of the Worst.

    Similar to that, spend more time on Pluto TV/Roku/Tubi watching terrible low budget sci-fi and old comfort episodes of Quantum Leap and TNG.