• Grapho@lemmy.ml
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    1 day ago

    I’m just used to y’all going “I’m not being homophobic lol, you might be a woman!” So I’m just preempting

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      1 day ago

      Ok let’s ignore that for a second and focus in on your homophobia. What precisely about that message is homophobic?

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        24 hours ago

        Calling someone a removed is homophobic. The usual “retort” is “but women suck cock too” thereby inadvertantly adding a misogynistic angle. I have seen this line of reasoning a couple of times and I guess grapho has too which is why they went with their choice of words.

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        24 hours ago

        Don’t play dumb, referring to the sucking of dick derogatorily is a classic homophobic insult, and when it’s not homophobic it’s misogynistic

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          13 hours ago

          What about that was derogatorily?

          And also how is that sucking a dick?

          This is sucking a dick, silly: 🍆😯, or 🍆🫦

          I don’t even know how that can be considered derogatory, it’s something pretty much every adult on the planet has either seen or done or received, seems ridiculous to say it’s homophobic.

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              1 hour ago

              Do you actually enjoy having this half conversation where you go round in circles with these endless half-accusations where you don’t bother to explain yourself but also keep responding? It’s a little sad.