They are constraining themselves to a gender though, they’re stuck in the idea that they have to be a man because they were born male. That’s not true though, people can be a woman regardless of what they were born as. They say they’re happy now but they would be so much happier if they stopped limiting themselves and realized they can live comfortably as a woman.

The pickme is back.

Being trans is not a choice you stupid bigot, when you’re trans you’re trans whether you like it or not.

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Being trans is not a choice, if you feel cute in a dress you are more than likely trans, whether you like it or not.

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“gender is an artificial construct made up by society, it’s all made up and in your heads” 🙄

No cis man would possibly want to dress as a girl, if he was cis it would give him unbelievable dysphoria. The fact that he doesn’t proves he isn’t entirely cis in and of itself.

They could be Nonbinary but nonbinary is under the trans umbrella so they’d still be technically trans.

Then just ignore it and move on.

Oh look, another transphobe 🙄

It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are, helping them come out of the egg and break the denial that prevents them from being their most legitimate selves.

Don’t compare cracking someone’s egg to conversion therapy, they are not the same, cracking people’s eggs saves lives, it frees them from denial and allows them to be happy as their authentic self. Conversion therapy tries to force people deeper into denial. This is such a rotten and transphobic argument.

No I said we aren’t femboys, we are women. If someone claims to be a boy and dresses fem it’s clear they aren’t entirely cis, if they were such act would give them unbelievable gender dysphoria and discomfort.

This person is clearly in-denial, I’m not saying they should or shouldn’t be anything, it’s just obvious they aren’t entirely cis if you catch my drift.

Lemmy.world sure is full of transphobes and pickmes 🤮, it’s just like Reddit.

I never understood how people get so stuck in-denial, I mean ask yourself, is there really something so wrong with being a girl. Really what is so bad abut that to you that you’ll intentionally and repeatedly deny who you are to yourself? I wish you luck sis and I hope you can come out to yourself and be happy one day.

I think the person who made this list did not grow up as a girl.

Are you trying to argue that us trans women aren’t real women you disgusting pig?

Male dolphins are rapist pigs just like human men are? The more you know I guess.

That’s different, what you are describing is blatant transphobia. I’m trying to help her realize her trans identity, not deny it.