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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Very rigid routines and coping mechanisms. For your tab problem, I use OneTab to collapse and save them all into a searchable list for later.

    So the key for me has been “offloading” and “outsourcing” is what I call them. Memory tasks I offload to my phone like reminders, obsessive calendaring, note taking, and to do lists. I automate as much as possible when it comes to systems designed to make me get on task. Basically, if executive function is a limited resource (it is if you have ADHD) the less decision making you have to do, the better. Pre-make decisions and go from a script or playbook. That’s my calendar and notes.


















  • Tbh I’m doing ok financially at 26, I just have no time or energy because of crazy baby. I imagine once I hit my 30s I’ll get some more time and perhaps some energy, heck maybe more money. Fortunately I have a great job I mostly enjoy and doesn’t destroy me (cybersecurity ftw) It’s just existing on a daily basis is absolutely exhausting. The house has gone to hell and I definitely don’t have the will to take care of my body outside of bare minimum because this child doesn’t sleep. For those that work harder than I do, damn the grind must be unreal.