Put yourself in their shoes, some guy dates one of their daughters for 6 years and then has a breakup and goes for the younger child. Would you be fine if someone did this with your children? I would wonder about the motives of that guy and also that is also a real betrayal from you towards your sister. It’s actually a pretty fucked up situation that any parent would justifiably take issue with, I would never ever trust the guy, how long before he hurts the next daughter? Was he attracted to her when she was a teenager and waiting for the right time? Why should my other daughter have to see her ex every time with her sister, why would her sister think this is ok? And as someone older, the first year is always all roses and means jack shit. After several years you see who people really are and you become comfortable to be your true self, you don’t know the guy but your sister after 6 years will definitely know him. I would have a long talk with her, see what you’re really getting into long term. And remember your parents have experienced life, you see through a lot of bullshit with age, you’re practical still a kid at 25. I know I was a total moron at that age.
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It will be a grey CHR or Rav4 when I can finally afford it 🙈
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Global News@lemmy.zip•How Gen Z is taking the fight for their rights from TikTok to the streetsEnglish37·2 days agoFighting to keep a weapon that makes the population dumber, spreads misinformation, destroys attention span and is a Chinese government surveillance tool…
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•The person who will be the oldest person alive in the year 2100 is already probably already like 25 years old.47·2 days agoI’d say probably older, some poor millennial will probably be 115 and asked what they think helped them live that long.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Games@lemmy.world•Shortly After Xbox Game Pass Prices Spiked, the Page to Cancel Game Pass Subscriptions Was OverwhelmedEnglish8·3 days agoI work in the IT software licensing industry, it’s a fucking cancer I can’t wait to fail so bad that when we have the first extended internet outage failure so bad that it shows the world that subscriptions are a liability that shouldn’t exist
Oh boy am a I glad we’re not IRL friends because this would really upset my wife with her Ferrari red Seat Ibiza 😂
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•South Korea scrambles to restore services after major state data centre fireEnglish4·8 days agoThis is the new norm, only a matter of time before the great internet outage and suddenly it’s a race to move everything back on prem and get rid of always online subscriptions/licensing.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Trump says TikTok should be tweaked to become “100% MAGA”English17·8 days agoMAGA youth recruitment and education platform
Heladoius (as it was in Spain) or Ice-creamius
There is a hollow grass based solution used in asia which requires zero processing beyond cutting, drying and packaging. But I’ll keep the paper straws if the billionaires have to travel in paper planes and boats.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is it racist to oppose illegal immigrants?11·9 days agoI’d argue no, if you have valid reasons and lets not kid ourselves even though there is enough wealth in the world to have everyone live comfortably, thats not the game the wealthy and their puppet politicians play. They want us cheap and desperate and immigrants are just another tool to achieve this objective.
Until it’s deemed illegal to block ads and you lose points on your social credit rating, more bodies for the corporate prison system.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•Drone incursions in Denmark were 'hybrid attack'English4·10 days agoNo, lacks the big dick energy that would confuse the audience.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•'Nightmare bacteria' (Bacteria that are difficult to treat due to the so-called NDM gene) cases are increasing in the USEnglish3·11 days agoStrong dose of prayer and a good session of getting mad at things (basically everything) they don’t understand.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•Poland to Russia: ‘You have been warned’ so don’t ‘whine’ if your jets are shot down in NATO airspaceEnglish6314·12 days agoMore words, to be followed by more incursions without action. We should have started shooting down Russian air-junk right from the first invasion in 2014. Historians will not be kind about floppy dicked Europe/NATO after it’s too late….
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•German jets scrambled after Russian military plane flies over Baltic SeaEnglish41·13 days agoMore like conspiring to sell weapons to Russia and supporting them, republicans hate the EU.
Can we interest you in watching paint dry? It’s as action packed as the EU defending itself.