they can’t find a girl because of deeply rooted, misogynistic beliefs that turn people off

People aren’t born with misogynistic beliefs. They also aren’t taught them in school.

also like to see your citation for wage stagnation affecting men more than women

I’m not going to google search for you, but it’s pretty easy to see that wage stagnation affects men more because traditionally, men are expected to be the provider for the household and women have traditionally had the option of not starting a career and just finding a man instead. I’m not saying that women are not affected, but they have an economic “out” that men generally don’t have.

I know many, many men who aren’t the strong hunter gatherer type and have loving wives or girlfriends. The difference is those guys aren’t assholes.

I’m willing to bet that they also have stable jobs. Also, if you’re one of them of course you’d know a bunch of other men who are similar; this says nothing about a large swath of men that the grandparent comment is referring to.

RiF user here, would be a dream if that app worked with Lemmy (though at the same time not great because I was trying to break bad phone habits)