I’m upset that you made me see this with my own eyes.

You’ve never used charcoal for a grill?

No one is entitled to you, to touch you, or to hurt you. Your time and compassion is a gift you choose to give to others not a thing that is ever owed.

People can lose the privilege of access to you, and boundaries are ALWAYS okay and appropriate. Boundaries are even more okay and appropriate if you are being hurt - emotionally or physically. People repeatedly crossing your boundaries are people that are likely to continue to repeatedly cross your boundaries.

A good partner doesn’t get mad when you go to things and have a good time. A good partner doesn’t need to convince you to stay with them, a good partner doesn’t repeatedly hurt you.

This sounds like a person that you know is causing you harm and who is now trying to manipulate you to let them continue to have access to your or to harm you. I am sure the situation is more nuanced, and there are a lot of complicated feelings - but consider that things could escalate (and sound like they are escalating) to a point that they are hurting you FAR more or trapping you into a situation that they can prevent you from leaving. Please be careful, this sounds like a time to start considering worst-case scenarios to keep yourself from ending up in the hospital or dead. Do they have keys to your place? Do they have any weapons or access to them? Do they have access to your work? Do you have anyone to stay with for some time?

You shared multiple examples here of finding happiness on your own, and juxtaposed those examples with sounding scared or harmed when you spend time with him. Please be safe.

yea, crazy that you can raw-dog in Wildermyth. Did NOT expect that cutscene.

I think the people that spend their time focusing on this are really creepy. They freak out about something that genuinely isn’t an issue and demonize people who are just trying to live their lives. There are better things to focus on

“Time to Orbit: Unknown” by Derin Eldala is great. Its definetly written in an ADHD style

https://derinstories.com/2022/06/04/001-the-problem-with-the-javelin-program/

Its an ongoing web serial. Be careful, apparently it made a surgeon miss surgery twice

2nded, great series

See, I feel like this was written by a coder. WAY too accurately specific.

That’s cool. I had no idea there was a python variant for visual novels! https://www.renpy.org/

I know it’s a typo, but I like the idea of composting code. A lot of it is turning to shit and has gotten moldy, so the metaphor is apt. Gotta mix it up with some fresh stuff, and turn it around every so often and you’ll end up with gold if you can give it the proper time

Oh this dude makes good motorcycle videos.

Another unfun fact (dunno if it’s mentioned in the video) is that Teflon is a PFAS that is currently in our environment and ground water in harmful amounts, is definitely giving us cancer, and can’t be easily extracted or broken down :(

I hope we can go back to waxed coats and boots or something, soon.

edit:// the video does mention it. Cool video

I like gitpod.io and GitHub codespaces

I feel the same. It’s awesome that there’s a whole community and content. Lovely to see all the smaller communities too

The Arch Wiki spit in my mouth, pulled my pants up to my chest, and called me names.

Learning a new hobby right after getting partway through another one

Wouldn’t Mastodon just be that? Lemmy and Mastodon federate - and you can see one in the other.

Twitter-likes are tag based. Reddit-likes are community based? I think it’s fine and good if communities merge or get subsumed by an equivalent on another instance.

I believe the chart is if you are looking at last activity date.

Was this persons’ last activity date in the last 6 months? Last 1 month?

Not sure how they are actually measuring that activity - whether that’s logins or posts?

I would’ve never gotten that! I started getting lost trying to think about the differences in circumferences and radii before they mentioned the right or wrong answers

Ha. Amateurs. I disappeared YEARS of my files by self-hosting.