A quick TLDR of the comment section:

    • HowManyNimons@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      There is a sequence. People earn trust, then they get trust. That is the sequence.

      Individual boys will be trusted if they deserve it.

      Masculinity won’t because it has broken trust. We’ve got a major crisis here, and it won’t be solved with downvoting feminist opinions or demanding trust. We have inherited a deeply broken situation, and many of the loudest voices in masculinity are still disasterously counterproductive.

      The way forward is to forge a better masculinity that is an ally to the other genders. Maybe earn trust back. We can start by listening to women and hearing their concerns. Downvoting and negating their concerns pushes them in the wrong direction, doesn’t it?