Honestly I’m starting to feel like I have nothing to offer. Everyone always asks what I bring to the table. When both people are working what exactly do you want me to bring to the table?

You either find something you like in me (like my mentality, personality, appearance) or you don’t, I don’t get it.

Do you want me to slave away for you or something? Also I’m pretty introverted so I cant offer you social ties or community for the most part. Guess I’m useless.

I genuinely don’t feel like most people are THAT special. Like most people aren’t rocket scientists who also have 59 obscure hobbies and write dissertations in their spare time. Wtf do people want? A positive outlook?

Ok I have a positive outlook to offer you. They’re gonna laugh in my face when I say that. Oh I’m also quirky by the way. Not like the other girls. Teehee.

  • HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com
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    14 hours ago

    Depends on the relationship. Relationships are tough. There need to be enough shared interests yet each part needs to be able to compliment the other parts strengths and weaknesses. The whole reason folks can’t just be with anyone is there is just a certain mixture that will work and some that won’t. What you might offer in one relationship may be different in another and vice versa.